.Sunday, November 06, 2005 Y
Why can brothers turn into enemies in just one night? How can the parents blame only on one party? How can the parents blame the son's wife for the son's behaviour? It's all your fault. Not my mum or my dad. Why should you scold them? Why should you even blame my mum? Why didn;t you even think about the whole issue and scold your second son?
Its my grandma's birthday today. As usual, my extended family has planned a dinner at a restaurant for her like every single year. But this time, my family's not going. Because my DAD refused to go as they quarrelled earlier this year. My mum, being nice, when over to my aunt's house[my grandparents are staying with her] to give her a red packet for her birthday early in the morning. But, my grandfather scolded her. The reason being, he said that it was my mum that asked my dad not to go to the birthday dinner. He said that it was my mum that asked my dad not to invite my second uncle to my sister's 21st birthday celebration earlier this year. He said that my mum did all these because NINE years ago, my uncle and aunt had a quarrel with my parents over my cousin and I. *Gosh* That was something long ago. My mum and dad had long forgotten about it. It was my UNCLE that remembered all these. He DID NOT invite my parents but me and my siblings to his house warming. Why didn't my grandparents scold him? My dad was angry that he did not even inform my dad yet inform my brother about this. So, he did not invite my uncle to my sister's birthday. My dad was angry that my grandparents was siding my uncle so he did not want to attend the dinner. It was no fault of my mum. Why can't they get this into their head? Why can't they re-think about everything that has been happening?
If I was there in the morning, I would have screamed at my grandfather was being so unreasonable and bias. My aunt was there and she told my grandfather off too. But him, being unreasonable did not want to listen. Everyone in my extended family is siding my dad. But my grandparents are not willing to re-think about the whole situation. Why can't one family settle this peacefully? Next year's Chinese New Year is gonna be a boring one. No more visiting. Np more get-togethers. *siGh*
waiting for you right here
12:24:00 AM
